August 3rd, 2024Just sayin’…
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By Donna Kelly
I received a media release last week from Central Highlands Rural Health saying that they are partnering with the council to provide free access to puberty education resources.
As part of that they are also giving primary school students, in grades five and six, two pairs of reusable period underwear and a wet bag. Wow.
As a middle-aged woman I was a bit gobsmacked, one that we are talking about this, and two, how does this underwear work?
I feel like I grew up in the last century, well I did actually, and when I was a kid we never talked about periods. To the extent that when I got my first one, at age 11, I had no idea what was going on.
The adverts for pads and tampons were really subtle. It was all about riding horses and surfing. I thought that if I got my period it just meant I would suddenly have some sporting prowess.
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I told Mum what had happened and she asked if I hadn’t already worked it all out. No, I said. No idea. She got some pads from the top of her wardrobe shelf and handed them to me.
“There you are,” she said. Dad wandered by about this time and asked what was going on. “Our little girl has become a woman,” Mum said. So Anne of Green Gables. Dad kept walking. And that was pretty much my introduction to something that would happen every month for another 40 years or so.
The pads were awful things, huge and lumpy, with a tendency to spill over at any time. So bathroom checks were constant. It’s almost post-traumatic thinking about it.
Change came a few years later, aged about 16, when a friend of mine said I should switch to tampons. She had made the move when she was just 14, she said. It happened after she had sex in a football ground in Frankston with a random stranger.
She decided “if that can fit in, a tampon can”. Practical girl.
Not much else changed, so the research that most tweens and teens will continue to use the first sanitary products they were introduced to for most of their menstruating life, seems to be pretty true.
Luckily, for me, I had very heavy periods and got popped onto a Mirena IUD device, for both birth control and to help out.
It worked so well my periods stopped altogether – which I was pretty pleased about. I had a hormone test a few years back and it came back as nothing left in the tank. All gone.
I told Kyle whose only comment was “that’s a bit sad”. I asked what the sad bit was and he said “you can’t have children”. Hmmm. I think at 55 that horse had long bolted – especially after the conversation that we did not want kids about 25 years earlier. Maybe he forgot that bit.
True story. We used to have people tell us we would have made great parents but I think you really want to have the children first. And I have had many nightmares where I am pregnant, only waking up to a huge relief that it was just a bad dream. All power to those of you wanting, trying or having children. Just not us.
Anyway, it is great that periods, something that happens to 50 per cent of people throughout the world, and should be understood by the other 50 per cent, are out of the closet and into the discussion.
Mind you, the research bit where pads containing plastic and tampons ultimately end up in landfill means it’s time to swap to reusable period underwear might be a harder sell. Cloth nappies again, anyone? Just sayin’